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13 – Moving beyond idealization to the reality of complex relationships | Frank Yeomans

August 14, 2025 by Mathieu Norton-Poulin

This video features 41 minutes from a TFP session focused on moving beyond idealization to the reality of complex relationships as these dynamics unfold in the transference. The patient initially relates to the therapist through idealized expectations that obscure underlying ambivalence, disappointment, and aggression. As the session progresses, defensive shifts toward devaluation and resistance emerge when the therapist clarifies inconsistencies and confronts distortions. This segment is useful for illustrating how TFP facilitates the transition from polarized, idealized object relations to a more realistic and integrated experience of relationships.

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